How I Watch Porn With My Girlfriend (The Right Way)

I often hear about couples who try watching porn together only to miserably fail. I’ve even heard about women getting mad at their boyfriend because of the porn they’ve proposed. And that’s why I want to write this article. I want to help. I have a lot of experience with watching porn together with my girlfriend. And it’s not just because she’s a cool GF. I’ve watched porn with multiple ex-girlfriends. Fails were a thing, don’t get me wrong. But I thought about it hard. I don’t just watch random porn. I came up with a protocol that can make my woman feel comfortable with porn watching as a form of foreplay or a kink.

I Always Let Her Choose

What men get wrong when it comes to watching porn with their girlfriends or wives is thinking it is the same process as when they watch porn by themselves. You’re not supposed to be watching porn. You’re supposed to watch your woman watch porn. It’s not about porn at all. It’s about the experience that you share together. What I do is I let my girlfriend choose the porn we’re watching. At least in the beginning. I noticed that my girlfriend tends to be a bit self-conscious about porn, her body, and the comparison to whoever is on the screen. That’s why when she chooses her, she won’t have that overthinking angst. She won’t think that you want the women in porn more than you want her.

But everything changes after the first orgasm. After my girlfriend cums for the first time, she doesn’t care about the porn we’re watching. That’s when I start choosing. Of course, I make sure not to go overboard with it. For example, she gets turned off by kinks such as deepthroat and face fucking, POV blowjobs, degradation porn, or BDSM. But what she likes after a while, when we watch it together, is MMF threesome and gangbang.

Glamour Porn When We Want Premium

For some reason, my girlfriend loves watching premium porn. And it is kind of costly. But I would pay anything to see her happy. She likes watching it on the big screen in the living room, and we cast it from the phone. When we watch premium porn, we go for glamour content. She loves it when the girls are stunning, and they wear the fanciest outfits. She loves seeing handsome men in porn who know how to treat a lady.

Lately, we’ve been watching porn on Deeper. They have some crazy hot cinematic movies with nice plotlines and passionate fucking. But we also have an account on Vixen, and one on Blacked. She’s not that much into black guys, but she can’t deny the fact that she gets so turned on seeing women ravaged by black dongs.

TikTok Porn When We Want Quickies

It’s not always a big-screen porn time at our house. Sometimes we watch porn in bed when neither of us has the energy to start the foreplay. We discovered TikTok porn on our phones. And let me tell you, it works wonders in getting us in the mood. We just get next to each other in bed, I pull out my phone, I go on this Tik Tok porn site that I use called PornShuffle, and we let the algorithm work its magic. What’s cool about Tik Tok porn is that we don’t have to spend time searching for content. We just scroll past what doesn’t turn both of us on, and when we find a video, we watch it a couple of times. Then the platform knows we like the kink in the video and feeds us even more of it.

Conclusions

Now, I’m not trying to preach anything here. I’m just sharing my experience, from years of trial and error. I have such a healthy relationship with porn in my relationship because of it. If you’re struggling with it in your relationship, try the tips and tricks I gave you.